There is rarely a greater insult to a church than to say “It’s just full of old dears”. We’re pre-programmed to see age as a curse, believing an aging congregation is just waiting to die.
This is not the Bible’s perspective.
We’re foolish to overlook the value of over 65s in church life. Here are 8 benefits of older Christians in the life of the church.
1. Retirement isn't what it used to be
Firstly, let's remember 65 is not what it used to be.
Because of our health system, many Christians will serve tirelessly well into their 70s.
It’s dangerous to lump all retired people into one bracket. A 65-year-old and a 95-year-old in care are very different and we do well to remember that!
2. The Bible tells us age is a blessing
Proverbs tells us age is a blessing
“The glory of young men is their strength, grey hair the splendour of the old.”
Proverbs 20:29 (NIVUK)
The other day I read when Pharaoh met Jacob at the end of Genesis. His age was worthy of respect.
In a bygone era, older people were seen as a source of wisdom. So it will often prove in church life, if only we’d listen!
3. Leadership
It's not an accident that the word for a church leader is "elder" (which literally means old man). Similarly, when Paul speaks of older women discipling younger women, he assumes age will be a factor.
Of course, there are examples of young men leading in church life (e.g. Titus and Timothy). But often the experienced provide leadership in the church, formally and informally.
4. An opportunity to serve
When frailty does come, older people are an opportunity to serve for those who aren't gifted in teaching.
You don’t need a theological degree to serve in the following ways
Weekly visits to keep someone company
Driving to hospital
Prayer
Providing meals
Service is an opportunity to grow and so opportunities to serve should be grasped.
5. Example of suffering well
When I visit dying saints, I doubt I bring much wisdom to them. But I benefit so much from their example of faith.
Some of my most precious memories are hearing what spiritually helps someone persevere through chronic pain. Facing death is a lesson many young Christians need.
6. Perspective on the brevity of life
Psalm 90:12 pleads to God “Teach us to number our days”. One way of doing this is to speak to people who are further along in the journey.
That doesn’t just apply to 90-year-olds. Sometimes "busy" young adults need a 60-year-old to remind them of the meaning of hard work. Or an empty nester mum can remind a younger parent how quickly the childhood years race by. A longer life gives perspective.
7. A model of grown-up life
Many today didn't have a model of parenting, marriage or long-term singleness. Therefore, they struggle "to adult" (as the phrase goes).
It helps to see the example of a couple on their golden wedding anniversary. Or a widow who has experienced 20 years of singleness.
8. Decades of growth in godliness
A Christian who has been sitting under God's Word and being sanctified by the Spirit for 50 years will generally be more godly than one who has 10 years under their belt. You gain from their love, wisdom and perseverance.
Let me end with this...
The church today is getting older. It's no real surprise, our nation is getting older too! We often see this as a negative. But it doesn't have to be. Older Christians are a blessing to the church. Enjoy them, learn from them, serve them.
And if you are an older Christian, be encouraged! You are a treasure we are very pleased to have.
What’s a blessing I’ve missed?
Great article. I've always gravitated towards older believers. In my experience they are often the ones who are the friendliest, the warmest and most approachable of anyone in the church. Sometimes they downplay their role or relevance, which is sad as they are needed now more than ever before (considering the general moral confusion and lack of faithfulness in society at large). Not to mention the peace, wisdom and clarity older believers have gained as they've walked with Christ through thick and thin.
They are essential to any body of believers!
Great post. So much wisdom in this. 👊❤️